Curious about Shi’ism?

Here are a few pointers to help guide your journey.

Welcome to Your Journey into Shia Islam

We’re so glad you’re here. Whether you’re simply curious, exploring spirituality, or seeking a deeper connection to your faith, this guide is here to support you. Think of it as a friendly conversation with someone who has walked this path and found it enriching. It’s not the ultimate guide or a one-size-fits-all manual, but rather a collection of suggestions, resources, and insights that may resonate with you as you embark on this journey.

Remember, your exploration of Shia Islam is deeply personal. Go at your own pace, reflect on what you learn, and embrace the questions that arise along the way. Welcome to a path of discovery and growth—we’re here cheering you on!

Online lectures

For a peaceful and insightful introduction to Shia Islam, we highly recommend Hussain Makke. His focus on spirituality and his gentle approach make his lectures deeply engaging and accessible.

Another lecturer we’ve found valuable is Jawad Qazwini, who offers thoughtful and accessible content that speaks to a wide range of audiences.

A fantastic resource to explore is shialectures.org. This platform features a wide range of speakers in multiple languages, allowing you to find someone who aligns with your learning style or language preferences.

When you’re ready to dive deeper into the spiritual and philosophical dimensions of Shia Islam, Sayyed Kamal Al Haydari is an excellent resource. His work on irfan (gnosticism) and Unity of Being is particularly profound, but we recommend building foundational knowledge before tackling these advanced topics.

On the subject of homosexuality in Islam, we encourage approaching this topic with care, as it can be complex and emotionally challenging. For a progressive Shia perspective, this video offers a thoughtful approach that you might find helpful (summary of video below).

Summary of (Homo)Sexuality and the Quran, Pride Khutba at el Tawhid Juma Circle: The Unity Mosque video

    • Historical openness about sexuality

      • The speaker references Imam Ghazali (d. 1111 CE) and notes that the Prophet Muhammad and major scholars in Islamic history discussed sex and sexuality candidly.

      • Scott Kugle (in Progressive Muslims, ed. Omid Safi) argues that Islam, compared to other faith traditions, is notably “sex-positive.” Kugle claims that Islamic discourse historically treated sexual desire as a normal aspect of human creation rather than a source of sin.

    • Sex as part of divine wisdom

      • The Qur’an does not link sexual desire to the “fall” of Adam and Eve.

      • Sexual desire is described as part of Allah’s purposeful creation, meant to:

        1. Bring people together and heal divisions.

        2. Encourage confronting spiritual and ethical truths.

        3. Allow for human continuity through generations.

    • Contraception and pleasure

      • Historically, Muslims showed openness to contraception, indicating a recognition that sex could be for pleasure, not merely for procreation.

    • Scholarly affirmations

      • The Tunisian sociologist Abdelwahab Bouhdiba is quoted, highlighting how Islam’s early and radical “legitimization of sexuality” fostered a rich culture of attending to physical/erotic well-being.

    • Historical context of the term “homosexuality”

      • The word “homosexuality” as we use it today arose in the 19th century (ca. 1869). It did not exist in 7th-century Arabia, so the Qur’an never addresses this modern category directly.

    • Respect for diversity

      • The speaker emphasizes Qur’anic verses that celebrate human diversity in language, appearance, and dispositions. By analogy, sexual and gender diversity would also be encompassed in God’s diverse creation.

      • References an early scholar (Ali Muttaqi) who explicitly recognized people with non-binary bodies as part of divine power.

    • Thematic vs. literal (“verse-by-verse”) reading

      • Kugle advocates a thematic approach: reading across the Qur’an to capture broader messages about justice, diversity, and ethical relationships.

      • A strictly literal or word-for-word translation from classical commentaries, the speaker argues, distorts deeper meanings and can freeze the text into outdated cultural assumptions.

    • Main argument: the sin is violence, not same-sex desire

      • According to classical sources like al-Kisa’i (12th century), the people of Lut were wealthy but became oppressive. They robbed and raped travelers to prevent them from staying in their land.

      • Their actions were about domination, economic greed, and cruelty (including sexual assault), not about consensual same-sex relationships.

    • Hospitality vs. oppression

      • The Qur’an often pairs Lut’s story with other prophets (e.g., Salih, Hud, Nuh, Ibrahim) who likewise encountered arrogant, violent communities.

      • Lut and Ibrahim exemplify hospitality, protection of strangers, and care for the vulnerable—directly contrasting the people of Lut, who did the opposite (driving away and abusing outsiders).

    • Critical view of classical commentaries

      • The speaker cites Kugle’s critique of how commentators like al-Tabari used “definition and substitution,” inserting their own assumptions about anal sex into the Qur’anic text.

      • Once these interpretations (that Lut’s people were punished for “homosexual acts”) took root in “foundational” works, they were repeated uncritically for centuries.

    • Parallel with Prophet Salih

      • Salih’s people (Thamud) slaughtered a sacred camel to reject divine ethics. Nobody interprets that to mean “camel hatred” is the problem, nor that killing a camel is the ultimate sin. The deeper sin is violent defiance of a prophet’s call to justice.

      • By the same logic, focusing on “homosexuality” misses the real point: the violent defiance and abuse (i.e., rape) committed by Lut’s people.

    • Patriarchy after the Prophet’s death

      • Despite the Prophet’s challenge to patriarchal norms, many early Muslim societies fell back into them, giving rise to heterosexism, sexism, and homophobia in subsequent Islamic jurisprudence.

    • The ethical (not “legal”) aim of Qur’anic stories

      • The speaker stresses that the purpose of prophetic stories like Lut’s is primarily ethical: urging hospitality, justice, and compassion.

      • Turning it into a “legal” condemnation of consensual same-sex relationships, they argue, misses the ethical and spiritual lessons.

    • Contemporary realities

      • In some Muslim-majority countries, consensual same-sex acts are criminalized, while sexual violence (especially against marginalized groups) can go unpunished. This inverts the very values Prophet Lut exemplified.

    • A demand for justice and inclusion

      • Drawing on Kugle’s call for “an acute sense of justice,” the speaker insists that Muslims must extend their commitment to justice into sexual ethics—opposing all forms of rape, coercion, and marginalization of LGBTQ+ Muslims.

      • The sermon memorializes individuals like Sarah Hegazi and others harmed by homophobia, urging imams and leaders to denounce prejudice.

    • The speaker calls for ijtihad (re-interpretation) that centers Qur’anic themes of justice, diversity, and compassion.

    • They argue that the story of Lut is about condemning rape, oppression, and the abuse of vulnerable travelers, not about outlawing consensual relationships between people of the same gender.

    • By adopting a thematic, ethically grounded reading of the Qur’an—and by recognizing that patriarchal biases have distorted earlier commentaries—contemporary Muslims can affirm that sexual and gender diversity is part of God’s purposeful, beautiful creation.

Books of relevance

Books can be a beautiful way to connect with perspectives and stories that resonate with your own journey. Here are some recommendations:

  • A Dutiful Boy by Mohsin Zaidi: A memoir by a queer Shia author, offering a heartfelt exploration of identity and faith.

  • Mehndi Boy by Zain Bandali: A children’s book by a queer Shia author, celebrating cultural heritage and individuality.

  • Books by Ziba Mir-Hosseini: A Shia scholar whose works delve into gender, law, and Islam.

  • Books by Amina Wadud: While not Shia, her insights as a Muslim scholar are profoundly relevant and illuminating.

  • Women with Mustaches and Men without Beards: Gender and Sexual Anxieties of Iranian Modernity by Afsaneh Najmabadi: A fascinating exploration of gender and modernity in Shia contexts.

  • Other works by Afsaneh Najmabadi

  • Homosexuality in Islam: Critical Reflection on Gay, Lesbian, and Transgender Muslims by Scott Siraj Al-Haqq Kugle

  • Islamic Law and Muslim Same-Sex Unions by by Junaid Jahangir & Hussein Abdullatif

Shia Dua’as

The du’as (supplications) of Shia Islam are rich with beauty and profound meaning. Here are some we find particularly inspiring:

  • Al-Sahifa Al-Sajjadiya: A collection of supplications from Imam Zainul Abideen.

  • Dua’a Al-Sabah: A morning supplication filled with light and serenity.

  • Ziyarat Ashura: A moving prayer of connection to Imam Hussain.

  • Ziyarat Warith: A beautiful expression of reverence for the family of the Prophet.

  • Hadith Al-Kissa: A narrative and supplication that holds a special place in Shia tradition.

For recitations that deeply move the heart, we recommend Hussain Ghareeb, a personal favorite whose voice brings these du’as to life.

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    • Short answer: No.

    • The Qur’an does not contain a clear, direct statement banning consensual same-sex relationships. Traditional scholars often base their view on the story of the Prophet Lot, but the chapter argues that this story is really about rape, aggression, and rejection of a Prophet—not loving, same-sex intimacy. Most major sins (e.g., pork, alcohol, etc.) appear in clear, categorical prohibitions. By contrast, same-sex conduct has been inferred through qiyās (analogy) from verses on the people of Lūṭ. Common references to “unnatural” behavior actually come from later Christian-influenced concepts rather than from the Qur’an itself.

    • Traditional View: The men of Lot’s tribe wanted sexual contact with male guests (angels in disguise), so some scholars saw this as God condemning “homosexuality.”

    • Progressive Muslims’ Interpretation: The story of Lūṭ’s people in the Qur’an (7:80–81; 26:165–166; 27:54–55; 29:28–29) is often used to claim “homosexuality” is forbidden. However, the text shows Lūṭ’s people were guilty of collective aggression—highway robbery, attempted rape of travelers, and other “evil deeds in assemblies”—rather than mutual, loving same-sex unions. Tafsīr nūr al-thaqalayn, a Shiʿī exegesis, further clarifies that Lūṭ’s people forced sex upon youths and travelers “to such an extent that blood would pass from the anus,” underlining the violent, coercive nature of their actions. It was coercive sex (attempted rape) by men who were otherwise heterosexual and married to women. Their real sin was using sexual violence to challenge Lot’s authority and reject his prophethood.

  • Classical fiqh uses liwāṭ to mean anal penetration between two males, usually in a context of force, exploitation, or a pathologized “passive” partner. Historically, it mostly concerned beardless youths, male slaves, or coercive settings. This is very different from two consenting adults in an equal partnership today.

  • Classical (and many modern) exegetes, Sunnī and Shīʿī, see these verses as referring to heterosexual “fāḥisha”—like adultery or prostitution. A minority interprets them to include same-sex acts, but that still describes nonconsensual or extramarital contexts—not a legal union of equals.

    Shiʿī Example:

    • Ṭabāṭabāʾī (d. 1920) states these verses were abrogated by Qur’an 24:2, which prescribes 100 lashes for zinā. He quotes al-Bāqir (d. 733) on how early Muslim women found guilty of sexual misconduct were confined to their homes, indicating the verse concerns heterosexual wrongdoing.

  • Conservative rulings rely on analogy between the people of Lūṭ and any same-sex couple because both involve “anal intercourse.” However, the Qur’an highlights that Lūṭ’s people practiced robbery and violent rape, not loving, consensual relationships. Hence that analogy fails—they are not the same situation.

    Shiʿī Perspective:

    • Even Shīʿī legal works mostly concur that Lūṭ’s story involves coercive acts—thus the sin is exploitation, not an affectionate same-sex union.

    • No.

    • All men, women, and children of Lot’s tribe were destroyed, but not all of them committed same-sex acts. They were punished for rejecting God’s message, engaging in robbery and abuse, and disrespecting their Prophet.

  • Some interpret verses like “those of your women who commit immorality” (Q. 4:15–16) to refer to lesbian acts. However:

    • The text is ambiguous and could be talking about non-sexual wrongdoing (like fraud or theft).

    • There is no unequivocal verse specifying “homosexual acts” for punishment.

    • Possibly, yes.

    • Certain verses discuss people who “have no desire for women” (Q. 24:31) or “women who do not wish for marriage (sex with men)” (Q. 24:60). Some Muslims interpret these as acknowledging non-heterosexual orientations without condemnation.

    • Also, the Qur’an says God creates diversity: some people reproduce, some do not (Q. 42:49–50). This might include LGBTQ+ identities.

    • Classical rulings often rely on interpretations of pre-Islamic events (like Lot’s story) or hadith reports that do not come directly from the Qur’an’s clear text.

    • The Prophet Muhammad never ordered a punishment for consensual same-sex acts in any confirmed hadith.

    • The Qur’an itself sets a higher priority on justice, mercy, and standing with the oppressed—which many believe can include LGBTQ+ Muslims.

    • Liberation theology emphasizes freeing oppressed groups by returning to core scripture.

    • In Islam’s early history, the Prophet helped marginalized people (like slaves, orphans, women).

    • LGBTQ+ Muslims see themselves as a similarly marginalized community, using the Qur’an’s solidarity-with-the-oppressed message to claim that God supports them.

    • Sexual orientation as a term may be new, but same-sex attraction has existed everywhere.

    • Scott Kugle stresses that homosexuality is not simply a “foreign import.” It’s a natural variation of human sexuality found in all societies, including early Islamic times (though often unacknowledged by name).

    • No direct Qur’anic ban on consensual same-sex relations.

    • Story of Lot concerns rape and violence, not loving relationships.

    • Verses that mention people “exempt” from opposite-sex desire may include LGBTQ+ individuals.

    • Islam’s overarching principles (justice, mercy, respect for human dignity) support non-harmful relationships.

    • Liberation theology frames LGBTQ+ Muslims as an oppressed minority deserving acceptance and community support.

  • Some Shīʿī jurists, such as al-Yazdī (d. 1919), allow an intersex person to marry whomever matches their inner (psychological) gender. This means if the person feels like a man, they can marry a woman; if they feel like a woman, they can marry a man. Shīʿī law thereby recognizes a person’s inner disposition, not solely outward anatomy, in determining eligibility for marriage.

  • This term (sometimes used by the late Grand Mufti Sayed Ṭanṭāwī and others) describes individuals whose internal gender sense does not match their external anatomy. Shīʿī jurists who accommodate “psychological intersexuality” allow medical procedures (including gender reassignment) if it resolves genuine distress and aligns an individual’s body with their innate gender identity.

  • Yes. Shīʿī jurisprudence generally applies the principle “permissible unless explicitly prohibited” and often relies on medical evidence in cases of gender dysphoria. This has led to pioneering fatwas in Shīʿī-majority contexts (e.g., Iran) allowing GRS for individuals who demonstrate a consistent, credible need to align their physical and psychological gender.

    • They can claim they are not violating any explicit Qur’anic law.

    • They can practice Islam wholeheartedly, seeing themselves as part of the faith’s diversity.

    • They often stand in solidarity with other marginalized groups—reclaiming Islam’s emphasis on justice and compassion.

Source:

  • Homosexuality in Islam: Critical Reflection on Gay, Lesbian, and Transgender Muslims by Scott Siraj Al-Haqq Kugle

  • Islamic Law and Muslim Same-Sex Unions by by Junaid Jahangir & Hussein Abdullatif

Contact us.

We hope these resources guide and inspire you as you explore Shia Islam. Remember, this is your journey, and we’re honored to be part of it in some small way. Feel free to reach out with questions or share your reflections—we’ll try to help as much as we can. However, please note that we are not scholars or sheikhs, just regular people sharing our experiences, so we kindly ask that you refrain from asking scholarly or theological questions that we may not be equipped to answer.